The Scarecrow wrote: ↑Tue Nov 01, 2022 8:11 am
My folks record collection from childhood was 70's staples; Elton John, Fleetwood Mac, ABBA, Bee Gees, Cliff Richard, The Eagles, Carole King, Billy Joel, The Commodores, Dr Hook, Leo Sayer, The Carpenter. Being born in '79, they also moved into the stuff of the early 80's like Christopher Cross, Carly Simon, Joe Jackson, Hall & Oates, Michael McDonald, Phil Collins, The Police. Growing up, the family stereo was usually set firmly to i-98FM or Solid Gold.
But it was my maternal grandparents Motown collection that stuck with me a lot as well - Stevie Wonder, Tammi Terrell, The Four Tops, The Jackson 5, The Spinners etc. My paternal grandparents only ever seemed to listen to talkback

As a young child of the 80's, I had several teenage aunts and uncles, who I picked up my tastes from then; Duran Duran, Inxs, Wham!, Culture Club, but also lots of NZ stuff like Dragon, Hello Sailor, and the epically underrated Coconut Rough (my former hipster band of the early 00s covered Sierre Leone on my insistence).
I tend to find my go-to playlist for when I'm cooking in the kitchen, doing work around the house etc is a mix of all of thee above which chronologically begins the mid-60's and kind of stops around the early 90's.
Thinking about it last night, I must credit a lot of who I turned out to be to a couple of maternal aunts and uncles (who were in their teens during my childhood) but in particular, one of my uncles, who was the lovable vagrant rogue-type of our family. He drummed in new wave bands during the 70's and 80's before settling into worship playing later in life, which he embraced as having "a solid, packed out gig every weekend" over the ditch. Had an eclectic taste in music - everything from Sabbath to Yazoo, introduced me to Queen, KISS, Dire Straits and Kraftwerk among others. Was an encouraging presence in my musical journey during my teens and up until he passed away in 2014 suddenly at 54.
Numerous comedic memories of him during my life, but two that stand out are
- Turning up to our place in his mid 20's the night of the '84 Queen Street riots sporting a Double Brown tallboy, bruised knuckles and blood on his denim jacket. Sat down on the couch with 5 year old me with his beer, lit up a cigarette and explained to my confused parents he'd just "smashed a couple of skinheads to tried to pinch his smokes" and didn't want to upset my grandparents coming home in covered in blood. Proceeded to watch Knight Rider with me and give me my first (and last) sip of DB
- Coming to my school talent quest in 7th form in a Dead Kennedys t-shirt, bomber jacket and wearing his sunglasses at night, proclaiming his entire critique of my bands performance was "you weren't shit" but then scathingly making jokes about the other acts and smoking inside the hall foyer. All my bandmates thought he was an absolute legend when he toed up against one of the more tormenting teachers in our school (who I long suspected targeted us lot for being anything other than the First XV) who asked him to smoke outside... teacher dropped nuts quickly when my uncle gave him that same look that Jake the Muss had when he'd lose his shit.... said teacher did not give us any grief for the remaining few months of that year
